Hello, all you lovely souls out there. It's Ryland, your favourite South African non-binary, polyamory blogger. I want to discuss our explorations of freedom and how our human curiosity is intrinsically linked to the moments when we truly experience freedom.As a forty-nine-year-old who has loved and lived in more ways than one can count, there's an abundance of experiences I've collected. You know what they say about life? It's not the years in your life that count, but the life in your years. I've learned that freedom isn't defined merely as the absence of chains, but as the presence of options. And in the practice of polyamory, this freedom is most apparent. It's like opening a treasure chest and being bestowed with hidden gems — varying forms of love, connections and emotional satisfaction.Now, here's where our natural curiosity comes into play. With this newfound freedom, we tend to become explorers — we become curious. We ask ourselves, 'What about this path? What opportunities does polyamory offer me?' These questions are the heart of curiosity. It's a moment of freedom that turns into curiosity. We learn that the society-driven template of monogamy isn't the only path available, and that in itself feels like a liberation. But, it's crucial we remember that with our curiosity comes the need for responsibility, consent, and mutual respect for all parties involved. If the exploration of attention, affection, and intimacy with multiple people is what sets your soul on fire, by all means, go for it! But remember, these relationships, these connections, they're not experiments. They're as real and significant as any other relationship. And so, they require the same, if not more, level of respect and understanding.So, my dear reader, my hope today is that you see the freedom within polyamory. It's not just about having 'more', but about having the space to explore 'more' without confinement. To engage with our curiosity and find the hidden gems that lie in the vast, open landscape of love. Always remember, love is not finite. Embrace your freedom, feed your curiosity, and treasure every relationship like a precious gem. Happy exploring. And remember, love isn't what you do, it’s how you do it. Source: - anussy.com/ South African non-binary polya